[DoTW] Tadita Pack Grandma of Fellfang

Edit 2/1/2023: added some grey hairs from stress.

Edit 9/10/2023: Fluffed her out some as fall arrives, her fur is thickening for winter.

Edit 10/26/2023: Edited her bio some to better portray her due to an error. corrected her age.

Name: Tadita
   Meaning: One who runs. (Omaha)
Nickname: Tadi, Tad. Fluff™
Age: Adult (she’ll say she’s a year older than she actually is, due to a faulty mental calculation)
Gender: Female
Height:  30"
Weight: 81 lbs

Tadita relationships docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d…

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Health Concerns:

Depression: This has been a battle she's been fighting for a long time, though as she's grown older, she's attempting to settle despite how hard her life has been. The ol girl wants to have some sort of life, after watching her family move on she's finding herself at a point where she's able to be her own wolf, not just a mother.

Old age: Tadita is growing older and is slowing down ever so slightly, not partaking in as many of her runs, nor moving as quickly as she had before. She's trying to keep up as best she can. Her joints get sore after longer usage through the day.

Life expectancy: 13-15years, she's fairly healthy right now and is well taken care of, despite the stresses of the Hive wolves. After the hive war and stress of returning, her expectancy remains the same.

Build: Soft and thinly muscled, very thick fur especially during winter. While toned and agile in her youth, age, sickness and two giant pregnancies have softened her appearance a little. Stress has caused her to go grey, little grey hairs spread sporadically through her fur, and heavily on her face.

Sexuality: Bi-sexual
   Voice: age as roughened her voice, she sounds like a nice sweet old granny <3 youtu.be/YWBSxmcQGqo

Territory: Fellfang

Rank: Theta Sage, secondary side job as the Pack grandmother XD
Themesong: www.youtube.com/watch?v=IRx9gn… (Okami: Reset (thank you) She's very thankful for everyone who's helped her through hard times
Personality:   Tadita appears on the outside rather cheerful and happy, but she uses this as a mask, internally she's rather depressed, but tries to hide this when around others to prevent worry. She's a mother hen, enjoying nothing more than to help others before she helps herself. She's selfless and would rather see others happy at the cost of her own.

Traits: Cheerful/Friendly/Talkative/bold/overly trusting/ Depressed/Not super mentally sound/Selfless.
   [Trait 1: Cheerful-Adventurous] "Hey there! How are you doing today?
    Tadita is a very cheerful girl, she seems to always have a smile on her face and something nice to say to others. She finds no better enjoyment then to see everyone happy. She also has a very high drive for exploring new places and seeing different faces, so its not uncommon to find her roaming about the territory at times. With age she’s calmed down on the adventurous activities and she’s more of a homebody, she’s had her adventures now it’s time to rest. Still cheerful though.
  [ Trait 2: Friendly/ Helpful ] "Are you doing well this morning?"
   She is quite the friendly and open type, always greeting others respectfully and making sure they are content. She loves to make new friends and tries to interact with everything that crosses her path. She's also always willing to help anyone whom might need it.
  [ Trait 3: Bold and honest] “with experience comes wisdom, but that doesn’t mean intelligence”
Tadita has become bolder with her words and opinions as she’s aged, she’s too old to deal with unneeded stress and will tell you when you’re being too much, this doesn’t change her empathetic nature and will give ample warning and chances to simmer down, but if pushed she will snap, this comes out of the trauma of the hive war, something she’s working on. But she’s not afraid to speak her mind if she’s being hurt.
   [Trait 4: Loyal/Motherly] "Do you want me to tell you a story little one?"
    She is fairly loyal, and won’t betray the ones she loves, or her pack in general (Other than her gossiping) she is will do as she's asked usually without question. She also has a bit of a motherly side and loves puppies, she also enjoys telling them stories and generally interacting with them. deep down she wants to mother another young, even if its not her own, she feels the need to mother her friends and tries to keep them healthy and comfortable before herself. With age she’s become more of a grandmother role and likes to give wisdom when wanted, plenty of spoiling of her grandchildren, her friends get the friendly and maternal support, but she’s less giving of it towards wolves who upset her or she feels don’t deserve it.
   [Trait 5] observasive] "I’m just watching, I enjoy seeing the hubbub of the days goings on"
Tadita likes to watch things, a bird singing, her packmates playing or the stars, it’s interesting to her, but she’s also more critical of things she sees too, it’s just nice to slow down and watch the sunset. But these eyes also watch wrongdoings too, as the keeper of the code and the packs elder she’s always watching wazowski, always watching. (Not that she’d run around tattling like a child, she’s just critical of change and abuse of power)
[Trait 6] reserved] "I’m okay, no need to worry about little ol me.”
With age she’s trying to get better at this, she wants to be honest about her feelings as she’s too old to bottle up her emotions to the point of exploding. But it’s still a struggle and she’s more of a fixer of other wolves, she’d rather see others happy at the expense of herself, but if pushed she will protect herself and her own mind now. She’s trying.

[Trait 7] Depressed "Im not okay right now..."
Tadita is still dealing with depression, she takes things to heart and struggles to deal with stress, it’s grayed her fur and weakened her muscles, caused her to get worryingly thin or overly plump by gorging on or refusing food, she’s trying to overcome this and is letting go of stressful things, or accepting some relationships can’t be fixed. She’s trying to eye the future instead of focusing on her past, it’s time to rest and enjoy her elder years. It just takes time, especially if she’s continually torn down.

[Trait 8]Selfless: “my happiness isn’t as important, what is the problem, you can tell me.”
Tadita is very selfless, she'd rather see other's happy than herself and does things to please others at the expense of her own happiness. She needs to be reminded that happiness should be shared amongst herself too. With age she’s learning to do better and is trying to allow herself happiness through her art, or enjoying a nice snack and a rest.


Pre-Group History

 Pup
Tadita was the only female in the pile of three other warm, squirming puppies, her mother was a bit inexperienced, but they all where safe and healthy. The small family where traveling nomads though, they couldn't stay in one place for long. So despite the hard choice, the new mother had to choose one pup, that one being Tadita.  The little tawny furred pup seemed the strongest out of the four, the others small and weak. Her parents had to move fast in order to not intrude in other packs territories. But despite being nomads, Tadita had been able to learn her fare share of stories from other loners, along with her mother and father sharing tales with her about the lands they've seen before she had been born. She had been heavily socialized with other wolves throughout her childhood. She was happy, nothing else could change, Tadita was getting used to being the center of attention... But that soon changed

           Adolecent- early years as a young adult

   This comfortable life  that she was growing used too was soon taken away, when her mother had given birth to a second litter, seeing that the attention she was receiving was slowly diminishing with the arrival of the pups Tadita decided it was time for her to leave. Late at night she wished them goodbye as she slumbered and wandered off on her own, thinking she'd be able to live by herself as a newly aged young adult. Spending time as a loner for a few months had made her realize she wasn't fit for the sedentary life. But not all was perfect for Tadita, being out by herself, she was a yearling alone out in the unforgiving wilderness. She constantly was on the move running away from other loners, or even occasionally dispersal's looking for a fling. All of this stress and anxiety had caused her to grow ill, there where times where she'd just lay in the snow for hours due to the pain of starvation and the threat of frostbite. she'd gotten lost from Spokane, leaving her friend behind for a winter as she tried to find her way back to her home.
But as she laid there, another fellow loner has approached, offering to take her in and help nurse her back to health. Tadita was afraid and tired of being chased. So the sickly female followed him to a safe spot where he helped keep her fed and warm for a short period of time when she started to trust him. But that trust quickly dissipated as the male, whom went by the name of Honan quickly changed. He abused her, and eventually forced himself onto her before leaving the shaken and distraught Tadita in the den pregnant and afraid. With no other choice Tadita had found her way back to Spokane. It was a pretty quiet and friendly pack whom accepted the nervous mother back after being lost. Eventually she even got to marry Gladiatrix, becoming mates with her after reconciling their friendship, despite Tadita's fear due to the circumstances of the conception by manipulation, the two females vowed to raise her litter themselves like a family after some talks with both the packs medics and conversations between the two of them. But not long after the two worked this out, Tadita who was very pregnant was taken hostage at Zhawan and where forced to watch her packmates fight among themselves for the packs entertainment until they where rescued by another allied pack, Gladiatrix being murdered during the rescue mission. Tadita had enough, she couldn't live like this in this environment, It was time for her to leave... she feared she was a danger to her daughter, so She brought Nayeli to the border of Nawayee to be raised by her friend while Tadita took off to accept her fate. She felt selfish, but it was for the best if she wanted Nayeli to survive.

Young Adult, Her time in the Domain.

It wasn't too long until the sick and disoriented Tadita had made her way into the territory of Chandor,  being taken in by Nadia whom Tadita had quickly grown to trust and admire, she even made new friends within the pack as she grew healthier as the winter months ended. But She had slipped one day, her fuse at its breaking point as she watched a packmate whom seemed suspicious of poisoning their healer, she approached him and accused him of attempted assassination which ended up in a rather nasty argument which led Tadita to run away from chandor.
     
       Later young adult life within the pack (Fellfang)
  Once again in a rough situation Tadita had begun to slip back into depression, no longer taking care of herself and lost the weight she had gained in chandor, she had grown sick from the stress and anxiety which only made her condition worse. on the verge of starvation she tumbled into the territory of Fellfang to be found by a vanguard named Nach whom escorted her to the innards of the pack. She's trying to fix herself once more, and wants to fit in within the pack as best she can without disturbing the peace.  

She's making friends, Nach had introduced her to his friend Mygcheall and she's growing more comfortable around them. Tadita would love eventually to interact and learn more about her new home, meet some of her new pack mates.

Adult:

Tadita has had her ups and downs since joining fellfang, but is slowly recovering, she's learning how to enjoy herself and make friends. But recently to her surprise, Nayeli had showed up for Julentide, quelling her fears that she had passed away. Its a rocky start, but while Nayeli is here she wants to recover their relationship as best she can.
Group History: (This comes through RP! Keep a log of your interactions, drawings, bones, etc here)

Nach and Nayeli had talked things out, deciding on a plan to change Tadita's life for the better after all she's been through, after everything her and Nach have done, she was now his wife. and after some snuggling shortly after the question was popped. unknowingly Tadita has something brewing within her belly, four new lives will be joining her soon.

Current:
After a long four year relationship had abruptly came to an end, Tadita has entered a rather dark period of her life, she's always known the feeling of having someone in her life romantically. She lost that, and she's really crushed about it. She's trying to be there for her kids who are also suffering, and they are the ones keeping her going. She would keep going for them, to see them grow and move with their lives. things have been very stressful but she's currently trying to fix her mental state, she's since started therapy and trying to get her mind back in order to help with this war.

Post hive 

Tadita’s goal coming out of the war alive was to focus on healing, but slipped and snapped at her Jarl, she regrets what she said but is really hurt by her words, the sage is in a crossroads in her life, she doesn’t want to give up but is hurt, badly and is concerned about her place amongst the skuld despite  how much she’s contributed to it, to be held with such little regard and told she was a burden. Things are still rough, and she's trying to accept things are changing despite the fear that keeps gripping her heart, the old girl is trying her best.


Other:

Relationships

Jarl

Valera: ...

Former Mate:
 Nach: Thank you for taking care of me and the kids for so long, I love you, where ever you and Haj went... I just hope you two are safe...

Father: NPC "Father... I miss you so much, but it was my time to leave... I was getting older, and wanted to live my life without you being so protective over me"

Mother: NPC "Mother, I love you so much, you've taught me so much about life that I didn't realize I would need, I wish I could repay you for all your lessons. I just hope you're proud of me"
Offspring:

 Nayeli:  I'm so proud of the wolf you've grown to be, I know i wasn't there for you at all, and i'm so sorry, but you've grown up to be such a strong wolf and I know you can take care of yourself now.

Hajlmar: Haj, please, if you're with your father, please look after him, and yourself, I love you and just hope you're okay

Valkyrie:  I'm proud of you, I know you weren't happy in fellfang, I hope the rest of your life treats you well Kyrie. Fair winds take you, wherever they lead you.

Cacao: Cacao baby, I know things have been hard, and you're trying your best, things will get better i promise. I’m proud of you and see the man you’ve grown up to be, your father would be so proud...

Daisy: Daisy sweetie, I know you feel lost and alone, but i promise you you aren't if you ever need someone to talk too i'm always here.

Myghcheall: I hope you find what you're looking for Myghcheall, just please tell me what you decide, I love you... so much. But im confused on what you want. I want to be in your life, but i don't know if you want to be in mine.

Sire: [WoTA NPC Loner] Honan "I hate you... You've done nothing but wrong and I hope it bites you in the tail... I wasn't ready, but now you've forced me into a situation I wasn't asking for yet... Dirty scum, I hope you got what you deserved.


Siblings: Unknown (open)

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